Rilke on Love and Solitude

Vorfrühling/Early Spring: Illustration to Rainer Maria Rilke's poem by Koloman Moser

Vorfrühling/Early Spring: Illustration to Rainer Maria Rilke’s poem by Koloman Moser

“I hold this to be the highest task of a bond between two people: that each should stand guard over the solitude of the other.  For, if it lies in the nature of indifference and of the crowd to recognize no solitude, then love and friendship are there for the purpose of continually providing the opportunity for solitude.  And only those are the true sharings which rhythmically interrupt periods of deep isolation…” (p.33)

“A togetherness between two people is an impossibility, and where it seems, nevertheless, to exist, it is a narrowing, a reciprocal agreement which robs either one party or both of his fullest freedom and development.  But, once the realization is accepted that even between the closest human beings infinite distances continue to exist, a wonderful living side by side can grow up, if they succeed in loving the distance between them which makes it possible for each to see the other whole and against a wide sky!

“Therefore this too must be the standard for rejection or choice: whether one is willing to stand guard over the solitude of a person and whether one is inclined to set this same person at the gate of one’s own solitude, of which he learns only through that which steps, festively clothed, out of the great darkness.” (p.34)

From Rilke on Love and Other Difficulties, Rainer Maria Rilke, Translations and Considerations by John J L Mood, WW Norton & Co, NY & London, 1975; 2004


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